ANONYMOUS

I have tried to talk about this before, and no one listened. This is something I strongly believe in. Any form of bullying is a form of bullying. Are you really proud of yourself when you call that girl fat? When you criticize her for maybe having a big nose, or bushy eyebrows, or anything about her body? When you hate on her for posting what she wants? Are you really so insecure with yourself that you have to point out everyone’s flaw? Everytime you press that anon button, you hurt someone’s feeling, even if they yell at you, or say “I don’t care”. They do care. They even sometimes cry themselves to sleep because someone hiding behind a gray face said they looked like a whale and they should go die. And worst of all, some even commit suicide over your stupid remarks. Do you want to be responsible for somebodies death because you went on anon and hurt their feelings? 

If you don’t have the courage to say something to somebody, don’t hide behind anonymous like a coward. Our world appreciates honest people, and even if your mother didn’t teach you this, if you don’t have ANYTHING nice to say, don’t say it at all. Keep your hurtful words to yourself.

MAKE SOMEONE’S DAY and send them a nice message for once! 
MAKE AN OATH to yourself and others to send at least 2 nice messages a day. 
AND SAY NO TO BEING ANON. STOP THE BULLYING. 

-REPOSTED

rushing up

waaahhh still i dont have the guts to finish it up... what will i do?! im so fed up! help me oh pls! ****fingers crossed!

How to Succeed at Being in Your Twenties Without Really Trying

Have kick ass friends. This is definitely the cornerstone of success in your twenties. You need to be surrounded by awesome people who tell you, in detail, how awesome you are. You need people to take you to awesome parties and introduce you to potential love interests. Kick ass friends bring you the joy that is laying on your couch and rehashing the night before, holding your hair when you puke at the club, and telling you its probably going to be okay when “lawyer dude” doesn’t call. 

Realize you are invincible. You always hear people complain that young people think they are invincible, use it to your advantage. You can get in anywhere for free. You can meet anyone. You can do anything you want to. There are consequences, sure, but if you’re smart you’ll realize people in general have bigger fish to fry. Fly under the radar and you are golden.

Ban the babies. Your high school friends will have weddings (fun) and babies (not fun). Enjoy the babies in the privacy of their homes and move on. You still have the rest of your life to worry about your kids. That girl at work who leaves at 4:59 each day to pick her kids up from daycare isn’t doing it because its helping her career or because its getting her laid or because its fun. If you have kids, be a good parent. If you don’t, exhale deeply and fill you brain with more important things.

Be a bitch. It’s time to get what you want. If you aren’t happy at work, make yourself happy. Ask for what you want. If you don’t get it, find someone who will give it to you. You aren’t a pushover anymore.

Drink a lot. This is the last time in your life its going to be socially acceptable for you to drink a lot. Enjoy it. Make a few bad decisions, but not a lot. Make sure you’ve done at least one crazy thing, so you feel accomplished enough to close that door behind you.

Learn the minimum amount of skills. Learn how to clean, and do it. Learn how to have a positive balance in your checking account. Figure out who you will call if you have an emotional breakdown. I’m not asking for complicated Excel spreadsheets, just do the minimum. This is enough to become an adult. For now.

EMO

i can't say or write anything now.. im not in the mood to write what happen this same day a year ago... its just that FEB16 is FEB16.. that's it for now! GTG.. i wanna scream!

WTF

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ME,MYSELF AND I...... THE SAD PART IS?? IM STILL ALONE! ARRRGGHHHH

Flight Out

ohhhh its my first time to leave the country and can you imagine its also my first time to ride on plane!hahahah funny it is.. and it's kinda awkward because yes im leaving but its just at SAUDI.. kingdom of saudi arabia make way coz CHET will paint the town red! grrrrr...

mixed emotions! speechless,teary eyes, weary heart.. ugh! its a conservative and strict place. do you think i can manage to live there for about 2yrs? without a friend or any one i known for?! very big dilemma! yes im strong.. funny that i didnt cry nor no tears fell on my cheeks... i cant explain,,maybe its not a way my family is... we are very open that one day we will all leave mom n dad... not to mention that my mom got very emotional when they brought me to the airport.. what's behind that mom? maybe you thought that if ill leave oh your headache against me will lessen up..lols.. i know all my family are concerned about me.. despite of all the news spread on air that there are wars on the place im up to.. they still trust me that i can go without them....so blessed and happy!

here we go... oh God.. of all the date... why it was dropped on my birthday?

here now at the airport...

it's against the light yo.. so dont blame the cam!hahahaha

I've met new friends and colleagues, we are 13peeps... they are all nice! thank God!

and then on my seat... whew! it was kinda narrow huh? i cant put my bag in place! or maybe my bag is just too big!hahahaha

and the FA approaches us! we're leaving in a few minutes and im nervous that i would spit out same like when i was a child! euw!

and the most unforgettable thing is... when the FA ask about what meal we like..
FA: mam, chicken or lasagna?
US: lasagna ( with excitement) then kabooooommmm... it was not lasagna that we all expected! argh dammit that lasagna thing! it was just full of potatos and others! hate it!


then we arrived @ Riyadh airport..yes its still my birthday here! yipeee...
very cold ambience...i admit my weakness to cold places.. brrrrrr....
almost 6hrs we are here waiting for our next flight to Jizan..

TOUCHDOWN JIZAN...
(ai eto nb un?) first question i have in my mind.. and the driver picked up us... ohhh the van was awfully smelly! eto na... saudi n nga ito!hahahahaah

i was surprised that it was just a polyclinic and we thought that they would bring us to a hospital setting! oh well at some point here i wanted to quit! this is not what i want... but im here though.. i can do this...

the nurses are good.. as usual Filipinos are known to be hospitable.. but the accommodation is not as i expected! it looks like "andrea's dormitory" only! (hindi din ako nalayo sa pinas) hahahaha

and im hungry.. time to fill my growling belly... CHOW!

to be continued........................

my 24th: bon voyage!

i dont know if its going to be a memorable one... an exchange of sadness and happiness is felt... yes im leaving.. im leaving on my birthday! arrrghhh in so many dates why it is to be on april first? can i just have a lil moment with my fam to cherish before i leave? thanks to my fam that they early prepare and celebrate my special day.... they know what my heart will melt for... a CAKE! and i love it! i dont want to cry because im leaving them.. its just that i want them to be more relax and happy that ill be going to take the risk alone and away from them.. being dependent, i think!hehehe

and at the day of my departure.. before the sun rises up, my leeks family surprise me outside.. they prepare a small table in front of our gate then they sing a happy birthday song... my eyes are full of tears that i dont want that tears to drop! then we eat together at that very minute before we'll leave to manila... im very happy for that.. i can see that they are very supportive of me at any point of my life.. i just so love the people around me!

BON VOYAGE! have a safe trip to myself!hahahahaa